Discussion Forum > Book club/discussion: Connections by Roger A. Merrill
For fans of 7 Habits... I'm going to be facilitating a discussion about a little known book by Roger A. Merrill (who co-authored 7 Habits & First Things First) entitled "Connections". If you'd like to take part, head over to the Productivity Guild and say so: https://productivityguild.com/t/connections-quad-2-productivity/3537
Thank you Avrum letting us know about this book. I like the point about the difference between self-control and self-release, similar to "increase the likelihood it will happen".
I like what Mark said about goals. "ask yourself "If what I've done over this period is one hundred percent in accordance with my real goals, what would those goals have been?"
Rather than point at at a specific feature that I didn't connect with, I think it would be fairer to say that I didn't like the feel of it. And that's partly because it reminded me of Covey, which, of course, it foreshadows, and whose stuff I also dislike.
I think it's partly to do with the use of words like "vision" and "integrity". I just don't think of time management in that way. To me, it is a mechanistic thing. A purely practical matter.
If you do delve into Lakein, I suggest you re-read him several times. Despite the simple language, his book has layers, in that you find things in it that you missed earlier. At least I did. This is partly because he doesn't, it seems to me, make it clear whether he is presenting a unified system or a grab-bag of techniques. The truth is (I think) somewhere in between.
In my opinion, everything in GTD is prefigured in Lakein, though not systemised in the same way. In any case, the book is extremely good. A black book.
<<I think it's partly to do with the use of words like "vision" and "integrity". I just don't think of time management in that way. To me, it is a mechanistic thing. A purely practical matter.>>
Ah - I can appreciate why that didn't work for you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
I read both Merrill and Lakein, both with a chuckle because of the time periods. Written 1987 and 1974 receptively.
Merrill's idea about the Circle of Concern (concern, influence and focus) helps me mind my own business. The roles part did spark me to make a few phone calls.
Lakein is full of tips on staying with projects and avoiding procrastination. Similar to Mark's suggestions. The line between housewife and executive is long gone. The book is chewy and bears rereading.
They both spend lots of time on figuring out goals and schedules to do them in.
By far, it’s my favorite of the bunch. Would love to hear your thoughts about the book.
I like what Mark said about goals. "ask yourself "If what I've done over this period is one hundred percent in accordance with my real goals, what would those goals have been?"
Sorry, mate, but when I eventually got around to re-reading this book, I didn't like it. I hate to be a big black cloud, but there we are.
My favourite TM book, tediously, and flying in the face of this site's seminal principles, is...
Lakein.
There. I'm out and proud.
Curious though, what specifically didn't you like about Merill's book?
I'm going to check out Lakein's work.
I think it's partly to do with the use of words like "vision" and "integrity". I just don't think of time management in that way. To me, it is a mechanistic thing. A purely practical matter.
If you do delve into Lakein, I suggest you re-read him several times. Despite the simple language, his book has layers, in that you find things in it that you missed earlier. At least I did. This is partly because he doesn't, it seems to me, make it clear whether he is presenting a unified system or a grab-bag of techniques. The truth is (I think) somewhere in between.
In my opinion, everything in GTD is prefigured in Lakein, though not systemised in the same way. In any case, the book is extremely good. A black book.
Ah - I can appreciate why that didn't work for you. Thanks for sharing your thoughts.
Merrill's idea about the Circle of Concern (concern, influence and focus) helps me mind my own business. The roles part did spark me to make a few phone calls.
Lakein is full of tips on staying with projects and avoiding procrastination. Similar to Mark's suggestions. The line between housewife and executive is long gone. The book is chewy and bears rereading.
They both spend lots of time on figuring out goals and schedules to do them in.
Thanks Arvum and Martin.