Discussion Forum > Motivation - Making it Stick
PS
What I didn't say but think is worth mentioning is that I do place high value on making time to drift through choice.
Doing nothing is extremely good for the spirit and I would never want to be so busy that I didn't make time just to be (especially in woodland or other renewing environment); it's just I want to be able to choose to get more done in other areas of my life that aren't up to scratch and keep up momentum once I've built it. I just seem to have trouble building it in the first place...
What I didn't say but think is worth mentioning is that I do place high value on making time to drift through choice.
Doing nothing is extremely good for the spirit and I would never want to be so busy that I didn't make time just to be (especially in woodland or other renewing environment); it's just I want to be able to choose to get more done in other areas of my life that aren't up to scratch and keep up momentum once I've built it. I just seem to have trouble building it in the first place...
June 11, 2008 at 14:12 |
Hannah

I too have that issue and value lots of options and thinking time, I tried GTD and while I have a lot of respect for the system, at the end of the day I was attracted to DIT because of it simplicity. I found that systems in general very much follow the 80/20 rule and for me the most helpful part of DIT is the task diary. If I just use that, I get a tremendous amount of benefit from it. Maybe you could use this approach to pick the element(s) that give you the most mileage, while making sure to not overschedule.
Gerry
Gerry
June 11, 2008 at 15:36 |
Gerry

Dear Hannah
I think something that people tend to forget when implementing any new system is that it needs to be learned and practised until it becomes second nature.
So look on it the same way that you would look on learning to ride a bicycle. You are going to fall off regularly at the beginning. Just get back on and try again. You will get the hang of it soon enough.
When you fall of the DIT system, just say to yourself "I didn't keep to the system today, but tomorrow I will" and concentrate on preparing your Will Do list for the following day.
I think something that people tend to forget when implementing any new system is that it needs to be learned and practised until it becomes second nature.
So look on it the same way that you would look on learning to ride a bicycle. You are going to fall off regularly at the beginning. Just get back on and try again. You will get the hang of it soon enough.
When you fall of the DIT system, just say to yourself "I didn't keep to the system today, but tomorrow I will" and concentrate on preparing your Will Do list for the following day.
June 13, 2008 at 9:24 |
Mark Forster

Thanks Mark and Gerry
Yes, I guess it is always good to remember the power of persistence.
I've been thinking about motivation and making things stick quite a lot lately and I think one thing that I have found that may cause me (and others?) to fall off the wagon is that I will start off all guns blazing and find it really works well at first. Then, maybe because of that, I overstretch myself (?) so I stop and maybe each time I stop something I lose faith that I will keep at it next time I start again. I know I seem to have trouble finding the balance between not doing enough so feeling no real sense of achievement at the end of the day, and doing too much so not being able to keep up the pace. Like I said in my ps, I also value the practice of 'doing nothing' but this can be taken to extremes!
I'm not sure about all of this but there is definitely something that seems to kick in which sabotages my self belief when I trip myself up for the umpteenth time. So I guess it's as well to remember what Churchill is quoted as saying "never give in".
Yes, I guess it is always good to remember the power of persistence.
I've been thinking about motivation and making things stick quite a lot lately and I think one thing that I have found that may cause me (and others?) to fall off the wagon is that I will start off all guns blazing and find it really works well at first. Then, maybe because of that, I overstretch myself (?) so I stop and maybe each time I stop something I lose faith that I will keep at it next time I start again. I know I seem to have trouble finding the balance between not doing enough so feeling no real sense of achievement at the end of the day, and doing too much so not being able to keep up the pace. Like I said in my ps, I also value the practice of 'doing nothing' but this can be taken to extremes!
I'm not sure about all of this but there is definitely something that seems to kick in which sabotages my self belief when I trip myself up for the umpteenth time. So I guess it's as well to remember what Churchill is quoted as saying "never give in".
June 13, 2008 at 21:37 |
Hannah

Dear Hannah
The idea behind DIT is that you should get everything done each day. That doesn't mean everything that you intended to do - it means everything that currently is ready to be done.
This provides a virtually automatic check on your workload. If you can't get everything done then you need to examine why.
Obviously even if your workload is correct for you then you won't get everything done every day - things don't balance out that well - but you should be able to catch up within 4-5 days.
Mark
The idea behind DIT is that you should get everything done each day. That doesn't mean everything that you intended to do - it means everything that currently is ready to be done.
This provides a virtually automatic check on your workload. If you can't get everything done then you need to examine why.
Obviously even if your workload is correct for you then you won't get everything done every day - things don't balance out that well - but you should be able to catch up within 4-5 days.
Mark
June 16, 2008 at 10:26 |
Mark Forster

I start off full of enthusiasm and find, if I've chosen well, that the new system or idea works brilliantly and I get a lot more done (or become better organised or whatever) but I don't seem to be able to go for long before I find myself slipping and eventually I stop using whatever system or idea I've been trying out.
I've used DIT several times and each time I do I remember what it was that appealed in the first place and I get a lot done. But each time I seem to gradually (sometimes abruptly!) stop using it and slide back into my old ways. I'm self employed and work part time as a gardener and part time I paint (on canvas not walls).
There are a number of areas that are quite chaotic that I would dearly love to change but somehow I seem to lack motivation to make those changes. Does anyone else suffer from the same problem?
I've been meaning to post something about this for ages now but on a time management site that seems to attract a lot of busy capable folks it's always been a bit difficult to bring myself to post something that says "hey, actually I'm a bit of a drifter!"
I am getting better in many areas of my life and find no trouble sorting out my business but many aspects just don't get addressed and like I say, whenever I try to implement DIT (or any other related ideas) I don't seem to be able to keep them going for long.
Any and all responses welcome!