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Discussion Forum > Still confused about regular activities

I am brand-new and haven't started yet. I read the introductory e-mail message and I've read many posts here, including the FAQ that linked to some older posts. There is still one thing I really don't understand: Do I list activities that I do regularly no matter what?

Example of something that happens on a schedule: Riding lessons
Example of something that doesn't have a particular time, but happens almost every day: Cooking dinner, physical therapy exercises.

It seems like if I list these, I will just keep writing, highlighting and rewriting over and over. Yet while reading, some people were talking about listing things like doing the dishes. That's also something that I would do a few times a day.
January 23, 2009 at 20:30 | Unregistered CommenterCaryn
Hi Caryn

As I understand it, you don't list scheduled activities - these can go in your diary, if you do things regularly then you don't need them in AF, unless you think you might forget.
January 23, 2009 at 20:38 | Unregistered CommenterNick
Hi Caryn,

I wasn't noting any tasks that I did automatically, eg 'empty dishwasher' or 'apply make-up'. Then, on the advice of another beta tester, I started doing it earlier this week. The more things I cross off my current list, the greater the sense of momentum, I find. It's made a palpable difference to the speed and enthusiasm with which I tackle those tasks I was previously resisting.

January 23, 2009 at 21:38 | Unregistered Commenterlittle b
Caryn:

My advice would be to start working the system and only then worry about details like this. It's much easier to get a feel for what works for you while actually doing it, rather than theorising about it in advance.

And you might want to read what the instructions say about highlighting again. From what you've said, I don't think you've got it right.
January 25, 2009 at 0:14 | Registered CommenterMark Forster
UPDATE: I decided to just list non-scheduled, non-automatic things. After all, it's the unscheduled things that you tend to procrastinate about or lose track of. It's working very well. I am especially enjoying my clear e-mail inbox.

Yes, I mixed up the highlighting and crossing-out in my question!
January 25, 2009 at 4:22 | Unregistered CommenterCaryn